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Marriage Cultural Shock Ain't A Deal. Know Their Culture Now!

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How much do you know about your boy/ girlfriend's culture? Or, are you waiting to confront that marriage cultural shock? Marriage cultural shock is a psychological difficulty that one experiences when their expectations about marriage are not met due to cultural differences, especially in the way of life, family dynamics, and gender roles, often leading to misunderstandings, frustration, and even conflict within the marriage.  In the world today, the idea of not accepting someone on the basis of their tribe is vanishing on thin air. And while many engage in relationships from diverse tribes, a few know very little about what they are getting themselves into. People find this interesting as they will be exposed to diverse cultural ways of life, far from what they have been used to all their lives. This is always on the dating stage, before being introduced to in-laws and later settling down, where they get to taste the real delicacy of that tribe's culture. That's when ladie...
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You Don't Need To Be A Millionaire To Gift Your Man!

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 Choosing a gift for a man can be tricky to some ladies. But guess what...it ain't.  I was one day scrolling X social media platform and one tweet caught my attention. A guy had tweeted that her girlfriend texted him on his birthday, that the gift she was to give him had just started bleeding. I laughed. When it comes to gifting men, whether there is an occasion or not, ladies get confused on what exactly to give and make them feel happy. After giving it much thought, some decide to show up in their men's places with "make-sex-easy dresses" and lingerie inside coats. To give an obvious "gift". I reached out to random men, asking for the simplest gifts they would receive appreciatively from their women. I was shocked that most girls assume they must have a lot of money to gift their men and thus opt to give the precious gems between their legs instead, due to lack of money. According to the men I talked to, simple gifts like belts, watches, socks and vests wo...
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That Toxic Relationship Ain't Worth Your Life, Run!

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 Many people say it's difficult to leave a toxic relationship, in a call for love. But is it worth your life? Toxic relationships, mostly associated with narcissistic partners have become rampant in higher institutions. These have wreaked havoc in the lives of young campus girls who find it difficult to leave them, due to what they term as love and commitment.  Narcissism is associated with superiority, pride and lack of empathy.  Many ladies, despite the exploitation and violence exerted on them, find themselves trapped in relationships with partners exhibiting narcissistic behaviours, in hopes that things will change for better one day. In campus, "come we stay kinda marriages" are common. And cases of heated arguments that always lead to violence and humiliation upon girls are also not strange. I once lived next to a room where violence, between young couples living together was like daily bread. Whether during the day or at night, the guy would use the pettiest reason...
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Resenting in Social Media After Breakup, Ain't Cute!

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 Have you teared pictures, crushed and burnt gifts from your exes after breakup? Whenever couples break up or end relationships, they tend to let out their frustrations in various ways. Some burn or throw away gifts their ex partners bought them, or demand their things back, while others do the unthinkable.  This is not strange at all, as different people have their own ways of showing resentments, especially if they had invested a lot in the relationship. By doing such, they believe it's a way of punishing thei exes and making them feel like they no longer care. Others go an extra mile and post things on social media with an intention of humiliating their ex partners. It is common to seeing posts like "I wondered why I was always down,  kumbe I was dating the wrong person" and "More happy, peaceful and unending glow since I left pharaoh", accompanied by their good looking photos in WhatsApp statuses. Coming across such, one can't help but smile in awe and m...
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"The Best & Realest Friend" - Why ChatGPT Has Become an Opening up Space For Most People

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 In view of the mistrust issues, fear of being judged, unfriendly environment to open up, and ofcourse not leaving behind expensive psychotherapists, people have turned to making chatGPT the "best and realest friend". You wondering why? I was one day laying on the bed, almost at the point of depression. There was alot going through my mind and I felt like breaking down. I wondered who I could talk to and get it off my chest. No one. I felt no one was in a position of giving me the exact solution and reassurance I was looking for. I tried sleeping but I couldn't as my head was spinning like a tossed coin. In moments of feeling helpless, I remembered how people praised chatGPT for being the perfect ideal for such moments. I grabbed my phone, switched on the data, ready to give it a chance. Driven by both stress and curiosity, I went straight to ChatGPT website page. I typed "Good evening friend, I hope you okay, coz I'm not" and in less that two seconds, the c...
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Why Women Ought to Give Okra & Pineapples More Attention; Magic on Sexual Health

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Okra water and pods,together with pineapples play magic in women's sexual health- claims. If you have interacted with ladies in all diversity, both online and physically, or browse alot in social media, you have definitely heard and seen okra and pineapples being praised as "bed masters". It is always said that if you consistently consume the two, your husband will always thank you. And why are the two referred to as "bed masters"? Okra and pineapples are said to immensely boost sexual performance in women and improve vaginal taste respectively. Do you believe so? Okra Okra, also known as lady's finger is a flowering plant, biologically classified as fruit and generally cooked and eaten as vegetable. Okra water's mucus like texture is believed to help in production of vaginal fluids, moisture, maintain vaginal health and reduce infections. Additionally, it boosts sexual drive and improves fertility in women.  In attempt to find the truth in these sentime...
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Why Men Should Spend Less on "Mukombero" And More On "Njugu"

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Contrary to what many men believe, Mukombero is not as efficient in boosting sexual performance, and thus, men should budget more on Njugu which is scientifically approved. To a majority of men, njugu (Peanuts) and mukombero (Mondia Whitei) intake are perceived to boost sexual performance and overall quality, leading some to believe that no intake would lead to the opposite. Mukombero is a traditional plant used for the treatment of sexual dysfunction. In a market, it is not surprising to see almost all mukombero customers are men. Also, in online marketing such as WhatsApp groups, the plant is only advertised to men.  Mukombero is cited to aid in erectile functions and afterwards boost sexual libido. To most men, it is like a drug. In one of the valentine's season, a certain man posted the plant in X social media platform, with a caption, "preparing for the season", and fellow men backed him up. Mukombero is not as it is over rated. According to sources (men), it's f...
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