The Press TV Kenya - Digital

  I was one day laying on my bed, listening to Christmas carols (it was the second day of the year though), as some source of therapy. My neighbour's friends had visited her. Ladies ofcourse. So they were debating. At first, I was just giving my carols 85 % attention. The remaining 15% was on them, just because my ears couldn't ignore them; until one thing caught my attention. "Mimi siezi wacha chali yangu ajifulie na nikona mikono", (I can't let my boyfriend wash his clothes by himself,  while I have hands). I gasped. I even turned the volume on the radio lower, coz minding other people's business is always my business, mostly if it interests me. The ladies chipped in, making the debate hotter; on the tasks they do for their boyfriends and those that they don't.  And they were sharing with each other the kind of house chores they must do for them whenever they pay a visit. They even exchanged on the roles a woman or a wife MUST pertake in their societies....

 As old as I am, I came to realise how these light skinned men have unimaginable confidence, in terms of approaching ladies. It's my own observation so I wouldn't care about the objections. 90% of them think or maybe assume that every other lady will quickly give them their phone numbers even before they finish asking them. Others make the same assumption that any lady would easily turn back to meet them or say hi with just a simple utterance of "xss xss". Others storm ladies' DMs with courage like that of exam cheaters just because they have put their images as profile pictures, exposing how "brown" their melanin is. Hey light skinned men! You not every lady's taste. You not meticulous.  You not special neither do you deserve a special attention.  Relax. Being light skinned simply mean you just don't have a dark melanin, that's it. But are you smart in the head? Are you capable of hustling and bringing something to the table? Or all you can ...