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Why Men Should Spend Less on "Mukombero" And More On "Njugu"

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Contrary to what many men believe, Mukombero is not as efficient in boosting sexual performance, and thus, men should budget more on Njugu which is scientifically approved. To a majority of men, njugu (Peanuts) and mukombero (Mondia Whitei) intake are perceived to boost sexual performance and overall quality, leading some to believe that no intake would lead to the opposite. Mukombero is a traditional plant used for the treatment of sexual dysfunction. In a market, it is not surprising to see almost all mukombero customers are men. Also, in online marketing such as WhatsApp groups, the plant is only advertised to men.  Mukombero is cited to aid in erectile functions and afterwards boost sexual libido. To most men, it is like a drug. In one of the valentine's season, a certain man posted the plant in X social media platform, with a caption, "preparing for the season", and fellow men backed him up. Mukombero is not as it is over rated. According to sources (men), it's f...

Not All Moaning is Genuine!

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 To many people particularly a majority of men, moaning by ladies during sexual intercourse comes out naturally and is as a result of pleasure. But to ladies themselves, moaning is let out under different circumstances, especially the state of mind. This could be a shock to the male gender. During intercourse, most men are driven by how their women react, of course by moaning. This psyches them up in terms of mood and energy as they believe it's a sign of enjoyment. But has any man ever thought that the moaning could actually be faked? Some ladies moan just to give their men morale or else to please them. A lady may be going through psychological trauma but when it comes to sexual intercourse with their partners, they feel obliged to reciprocate the energy by moaning. When a lady is stressed, moaning only comes from the mouth but her mind is in the problems troubling her and thinking of possible solutions. She may even tend to be louder when she can't come up with any. Some lad...

He Stares at Other Ladies' "Nyash" While With You, Girl Run!

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 If your man stares at other ladies' behinds in your presence, run for your safety. It might end up tragically than you think! Disrespect by men is a vocabulary ignored by most ladies in a relationship. Some things men do and which ladies consider minor are nothing but pure future tragedies to relationships. Some ladies suffer this unknowingly and if otherwise, they don't give it much thought in the name of love and affection. Washing red flags to cream white is the most dangerous thing a lady can do. If your man respects the relationship and you as whole, there are some things he won't do, one, laying his hands on you no matter how much the argument escalates. The issue of men laying hands on their girlfriends has become like that one old song familiar to everyone. You wonder if it's the perpetrator or the victim that is to be blamed, while figuring out how a lady can continue staying with a man who slaps or hits them. Such men will kill them one day. Some men take the...

Careful If Your Boyfriend Is Kalenjin And You Not!

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 Kalenjin men tend to marry ladies from their tribe, according to claims. Is this true? Kalenjin men are mostly believed to marry ladies from their tribes, no matter how hard one tries to fit in or be a good girlfriend and much more, play wife duties. Interacting with ladies, physically and in social media groups of ladies in different parts of the country, I came to realisation of the sentiments. A certain lady was sharing how she dated a kalenjin man for six good years, and was sure of a  future with him. She had already introduced him to her friends and family. Unfortunanely, things went south and they broke up. A month later, the man had already held a "ruracio" with a kalenjin lady. Another one shared her story too, on how the same thing happened to her a while ago. According to her, everything was okay during the relationship. "It's hard for them to let you go but the moment it's over, he gets himself a tribemate instantly", She argued. A kikuyu lady w...

Saying To Your Son "I Love You" Will Not Make Him a Weak Man

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If you planning on being a tough dad to your sons, you will slowly be killing them In an African home, dad's presence is often received by trembling and tense. Always felt. Most children run to their rooms and others outside, to just be not close or be in the same room with their dads. This is because, most of them enter their houses with a lot of aggression, orders and demands; all bringing a sense of authority.  I was listening to a radio show in one of my favourite programs, and the host was questioning why men find it hard to receive love from their fathers. The responses from the listeners were concerning. Some were saying they would rather not be in the same room with their dads with others adding that they would even be surprised if their dads said to them "I love you son", and that it would be like a miracle. Some would even question if the dad was okay in the head. I was astonished.  Many men fear their own dads to the extent that explaining their issues to them ...

"Does Chasing Around His "side chicks" Make Him Stay?

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  One day, I was trimming my nails while seated on a small mat inside my house, wondering what the weekend would be like. It was on a Friday. I was single and not searching. Maybe weekends with opposite genders always sound fascinating, even if you fighting. That's weird though. My neighbours (couples) used to spend most of their weekends outside the house. Well, just on the compound near their door. The lady would wash, well, scrub, the guy's short hair full of shampoo while rinsing it with warm water. I don't know if scrubbing is the right word or even whether the water was warm. But the guy would seem to enjoy every rythm of the scrubbing and moments of water pouring and I would stare at them with envying eyes. And finally conclude with "ni vitu za dunia" and turn back my ears to the girlfriend of the other neighbour, raising her voice and complaining that the guy has not taken her out for some time. Oh weekends. I would laugh to that actually. And thought. Bei...

Men Also Dress Indecently! Everywhere.

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  Whenever issues to do with indecent dressing arise, everyone, point fingers at ladies, insinuating that it's the only gender to be blamed. A person who has keenly observed the society and daily surroundings including me, will object. I was once in a lecture hall; hungry, tired and sleepy. Bored too. The lecture was boring. The lecturer too. He was bringing up irrelevant issues. He was speaking of impeding presentations after group works, reminding people to dress officially when the time comes. That point was well drove at home. But his intimidating nature would not allow him to leave it like that. He went ahead criticizing ladies, saying that they weren't supposed to wear dresses or anything that reveals their "ups" and "downs" (don't ask me what that means), breasts or thighs, adding that he was not interested in seeing either of those neither would they seduce him to awarding them more marks. As soon as he made that utterance, my mind turned from be...